Dr. Hecker’s 35 year career as a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist is defined by her success in helping her clients learn how to develop a strong sense of self and to acquire the skills they need to create long-term committed relationships.

Dr. Hecker has developed a ground breaking partnership model, “Yours, Mine, Ours: Partnership Done Right,” which she incorporates into her clinical work. Her approach is innovative and effective: it integrates both the personal and the inter-personal. Her goal is simple to help people identify the root causes of their problems and to substitute constructive behaviors for damaging ones.

Dr. Hecker believes relationships fail for two primary reasons.Partners transfer the responsibility for their personal growth and happiness to their partner and People lack the principles of healthy partnering.

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Dr. Hecker has fine-tuned her partnership model to the unique challenges of two groups:

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Busy, dedicated entrepreneur and careerists who struggle with committing to two “marriages” – to their compelling need for achievement and to their partner

In my counselling with Dr. Hecker, I discovered the answers to two important questions:
Did I marry the wrong person? What do I need to do to make my partnership a success?
Dr. Hecker’s process helped me to not only understand myself but also to finally
learn what a healthy relationship is about. –Lee, Connecticut

Divorcing people who are grieving the loss of their marriage and re-defining who they are post-divorce


When I first met Dr. Hecker I was absolutely convinced that my marriage would not survive my involvement in my prospering business. After all,50% of all marriages fail and 9 out of 10 small businesses fail. Fortunately, Dr. Hecker proved me wrong. She helped me to enrich my marriage as well as keep me on top of my game and operating at optimal performance. –Chris, Ohio

BOOK “Who Am I Without My Partner? Post-Divorce Healing and Rediscovering your SELF. ”

Dr. Hecker is the author of the enlightening book
“Who Am I Without My Partner? Post-Divorce Healing and Rediscovering your SELF”
With its roots in psychological theory,the book guides its readers to understand the dynamics of individuality before,during, and after divorce and to learn the essentials of great relationships.

By using the telephone and telecommunications technology (Skype and Vsee), Dr. Hecker connects and communicates with her clients throughout the United States and abroad.

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