Dr. Deborah Hecker
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Strengthen Your Couples Relationship by

Developing Insight in Yourself and Your PartnerS

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2 Strong Individuals

Develop strong individual identities

(You and Me)

Clearly defined personal boundaries.

Mutual Respect

Grant each other the right to your own feelings, thoughts, needs and viewpoints

Great Partnership

Bring two unique, well-defined

(We)

individuals into a healthy partnership.

With my comprehensive training in both Individual and Couples’ Counseling, I will help you simultaneously to understand your and your partner’s personal histories, how they benefit and impede you, and how to improve your relationship.W
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MEET DEBORAH HECKER, PH.D.

Licensed psychoanalyst and relationships expert.

Creator of Yours, Mine, Ours: Relationships Done Right model.

Author of Who Am I Without My Partner? Torn Between Two Loves, and The Entrepreneur’s Shrink.

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Dr. Hecker taught me how to navigate being a strong individual and part of a strong couple.

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The divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me. It allowed me to be who I am, not the shadow of the person I was. Thank you for supporting my metamorphosis to the woman I am.

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My husband and I are co-owners of our business. Dr. Hecker helped me learn when to share control with my husband and when to take a back seat

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ADVICE

Sep 5, 2022

Should I marry my (functional) alcoholic fiance?

Dear Dr. Deb, Rick and I started out as college sweethearts. We studied. We had conversations long into the wee hours of the morning. We had great sex. We did everything together, including drinking. And we drank. A lot…

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May 14, 2022

Non-Consensual Ex

Dear Dr. Deb, Several months ago, my girlfriend of eight months told me that she’d been wanting to get in touch with her ex again. She assured me it wasn’t sexual or a threat to our relationship. I didn’t feel good about it, especially because she waited for some time before telling meM

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April 7,2022

The (Bill) Splitting Headache

Dear Dr. Deb, I’m newly divorced and coming to terms with single life again. I’m determined not to be a sad sack, so I make sure that I spend time going out with my friends. Some of those friends, understandably, are couples.

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