Dr Deborah Hecker

Dr Deborah Hecker, Ph.D.

Online Relationship Therapist

RELATIONSHIPS ARE MEANT TO LAST
But too often they don’t.

 

Are you worried you will repeat the same relationship mistakes and end up with a broken heart one more time?

If so, then it’s time to make a

decision to change

However, if you are like most people, you fear change. Why? Because the outcomes are unknown.

What if I could help you diminish your fear of change by clarifying precisely what the outcome will look like and making it your new normal?

Welcome change.

My relationship model, Yours, Mine, Ours: Relationships Done Right, (click to Counseling Process page) is designed to bring your relationship to the next level and create lasting change. It teaches you how to:

  • Identify your unique behavioral patterns – those that work, those that don’t.
  • Replace problematic behaviors with new ones that create results.
  • How to remain separate and connected.
  • Contribute your evolved Self openly and honestly into a successful lasting relationship.
    Dr Deborah Hecker
    Why Your relationship ended

    Learn WHY Your Marriage/Relationship Ended

    Email Series

    I’ve put together a 6-part email series for you.

    In it, you learn why your marriage/relationship came apart, the part you played in it, and most importantly, HOW to empower yourself to move forward to make sure these issues aren’t an issue in any of your future romantic relationships (To virtually “divorce-proof” yourself, if you will).

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    Raves

    Debbie is a voice of reason

    when nothing seems to make sense. She is very objective, but also knows when to prompt you to assert yourself. Debbie provides a consistent source of guidance in ways that friends and family simply cannot. She has helped me release a tremendous sense of failure and enabled me to see the opportunities for growth.

    I have always had a good

    relationship with my two adult daughters. However, as they got older new issues needed to be addressed. Dr. Hecker impressed us with how quickly she identified the important dynamics between the three of us and how skillfully she brought us to the next level of closeness. I highly recommend Dr. Deb’s expertise, in particular for relationships with adult children and for family members who are in business together.

    Changes Lives.

    “I’ve done it again. I kept thinking I understood where I went wrong in my last relationship,” were the first words I spoke to Dr. Hecker. She helped me develop the motive to change my habitual behavior, to recognize precisely how I was repeating the same counterproductive dependencies and to become more self-reliant. Now I am happily married.

    Helps Develop Strength.

    Dr. Hecker taught me how to navigate being a strong individual and part of a strong couple.

    It Just Works.

    The divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me. It allowed me to be who I am, not the shadow of the person I was. Thank you for supporting my metamorphosis to the woman I am.

    Great Results.

    Debbie is a voice of reason when nothing seems to make sense. She is very objective, but also knows when to prompt you to assert yourself. Debbie provides a consistent source of guidance in ways that friends and family simply cannot. She has helped me release a tremendous sense of failure and enabled me to see the opportunities for growth.

    Thank you for guiding me through thoughts, patterns and the times I felt unclear, confused and in pain. I don’t know what I would have done without you. You’re amazing and an inspiration. Largely, thanks to your guidance, I’m ready now to work through on my own the problems that might arise.

    Dr. Hecker places enormous value on the importance of communication. She taught me to identify my feelings and how to communicate them honestly with my partner.

    Entrepreneurial Couples

    My husband and I are co-owners of our business. Dr. Hecker helped me learn when to share control with my husband and when to take a back seat.

    INSIGHTS

    Rewards Of Helping Others

    Rewards Of Helping Others

    Helping others is not only good for them and a good thing to do, it also makes us happier and healthier.